Ruffin's ashes have come home

Ruffin came home the other day. In a way it feels good to have him back in the house where he grew up and spent his entire life. I received his ashes from Faithful Friends Pet Crematory in a fancy carved rosewood box.

I am waiting on the brass plaque to put on the wooden box and it will be held here until the time of my own death and per my instructions, will be placed in my casket, just as Axl's ashes were placed in Jacqueline's casket.

I am overwhelmed by the huge outpouring of messages. Thank you all for making my grief easier to bear.

The Rainbow Bridge

If you love dogs you've heard about The Rainbow Bridge. The story is told about a place where the souls of all of our departed pets go and wait for their humans to catch up with them after they die. The pets wait on the other side of the bridge in a wonderfully happy place where they are free from all of the pain and disease they endured while on Earth. The lame and crippled can walk and run again, the blind can see again and there is no more hunger or suffering.

Then on some particular day, one by one, each dog suddenly sniffs the air and cocks their heads to listen to a long remembered sound because one of their humans was walking across The Bridge and they run to greet them. It is a beautiful, heartwarming story that reveals the depth of love that exists between people and their four-legged pets.

You don't have to be particularly religious to believe in The Rainbow Bridge, while some people doubt that animals have souls, one recent Pope of the Catholic Church said while he had no proof they had souls he imagined that God would not have created such loyal and loving animals and not given them an Eternal life. Or you can just embrace the thoughts of Will Rogers, the American humorist who said:  If there are no dogs in heaven, then when I die I want to go where they went. I sort of lean in this direction.

So I decided to visualize what I would find when my time came to cross that bridge. 

From the top: Nikko, Felony, Mocha, Sassy, Axl and his mom and my big boy Ruffin.

You are all invited to visit my Facebook page

The Internet is all about communication, news and information. It is a perfect place to meet and greet people.

I have been on Facebook for over a year and shared my library of Rottweiler photos and stories.

I invite everyone to visit my Facebook page.

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100015520213404

The eulogies and condolences keep pouring in for Ruff

Less than 24 hours since I posted the notice on Facebook that my best friend Ruffin had passed away over 1,000 messages of love, support, sympathy, condolences and eulogies have poured in from around the world.

Ruffin in all his quiet beauty had gathered a huge following everywhere.

It is no wonder that when total strangers met him and called him Handsome, Gorgeous and Beautiful and got to enjoy his kisses that others who merely fell in love with him from my photos would share their feelings.

Here are some of the sympathy cards sent to me since yesterday.

I am overwhelmed at the number of hearts Ruffin has touched.

Eulogy by Kimberly Michelle Anderson

Dee Bella Lail eulogy for Ruff

 Martha Gierschick eulogy for Ruffin

Beth Greenaway eulogy for Ruffin

Michelle O'Reilly eulogy for Ruffin

Sharon Jones Cote eulogy for Ruff

Judy Papinchak eulogy for Ruffin

Eileen Hughes eulogy for Ruffin

 

Where do we go from here

On another note, I posted the notice about Ruffin passing away on my Facebook page this morning and in less than 8 hours over 500 comments and condolences have poured in. This blog hasn't gotten 500 comments in the 20 years I've been writing it. There is no incentive to posting stories and photos if no one shows any interest or appreciation. The comments are what makes it worthwhile. When I tried to explain my lack of postings for that last several weeks I didn't want to mention this because it seemed to selfish and critical. Now that all my Rottweilers are gone except for Bessie I will have to weigh the value of the time and effort to keep this going.

Ruff's last days

I was in the hospital for 5 days and had a pacemaker put in. While I was there the lady who was taking care of Bess and Ruff told me he seemed to be missing me and was getting depressed. He even stopped eating.

I was so happy to get home and see him again and give him hugs and kisses. Ruff seemed overjoyed that I was back. I think there was something else more seriously wrong with him. And I think he was holding himself together waiting for me.

I came home on Tuesday and he seemed to be better and he even ate his dinner. I took him to the Vet yesterday and the Vet did some tests but didn't say anything conclusive and sent him home.

I am not too quick to make connections but two people have already pointed out that Ruff knew I would return and he waited for me to get back home before he died. I don't know how much of his condition his favorite lady Vet, Dr. Black may have guessed but I am glad she did not ask me to leave him there overnight. I think I would have if she did and he would have died alone in a cage. I had the opportunity to stay by his side in his home until he passed away.

Everything also seemed to work in that regard. At 12:30 AM this morning I made an attempt to take him to the 24-hour Emergency Clinic in Wilder. I had two friends come over but they couldn't lift him into the van. If I had gotten him to the Emergency Clinic they would have asked me to leave him and he would have died alone in a strange place.

So I laid him on the living room floor on a blanket and laid down next to him and stayed with him until he fell asleep and passed away at 5:45AM this morning.

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My beloved Ruff, my Best Friend Forever, is gone

My big guy, Ruffin, my Best Friend Forever, passed away in his sleep around 5:45 AM this morning. To me and to those who knew him, he was the most handsome, gorgeous and beautiful Rottweiler in the world. I am waiting now for the pet crematory to come pick him up. I will hold his ashes and take them with me when my time comes to see him again at the bridge.

RIP Ruff

2006-2018

A few difficult months but hopefuly it is behind us

Up until a few weeks ago I had no excuse for not posting anything new. I will try and make up for that now. I will save the best for last.

On July 1st Bessie had her 4th birthday and like all birthdays we had a party. We all shared a sumptuous home-made meatloaf with mashed potato icing.

 

 

 

Bessie and Ruff have been following me around the house every day. The kitchen seems to be their favorite room in the house. I am so honored that they love my cooking so much. As the photos above show, Ruff always does an amazing job cleaning his bowl. In those photos he was sharing my meatloaf birthday cake.

 

When I am spending time in the den on the computer Ruff and Bessie keep me company. When they are together they give each other lots of love and kisses. And they take lots of naps. I am always soothed when I am listening to their soft snoring sounds. Except when they follow me into the living room to watch a movie.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Then I started having some heart problems. My Primary Care Physician told me I should see a Cardiologist and I did and he took an EKG and it showed a spike he didn't like. So he ordered me a heart monitor to wear. The heart monitor that I was wearing last week picked up a heart block and alerted my cardiologist who called me last Friday and told me to go to the Emergency Room. The ER did an EKG and confirmed the heart block and they did an Angiogram followed by the surgery to implant the Pacemaker. My only problem now is the pain in my left arm anf the limited range of motion. I got to fully appreciate that this morning when I got dressed. It was almost impossible to put on a pair of socks and tie my shoe laces.
 
THERE ARE ANGELS AMONG US.

A few months ago I met a wonderful woman who was actively involved in a local Christian church. The meeting was accidental. I needed help with my outside landscaping so I posted a Help Wanted notice on a local FB Group. I included my phone number and the next day I got a phone call I will never forget.

"My name is Elizabeth, I am 16 years old. I have worked on a farm and I am strong."

Elizabeth was the only one who responded to my ad. She doesn't drive so her mother brought her over. She worked harder than all of the boys I hired last year. And in spite of being a lightweight she was strong. And unlike the boys I hired before her, she kept coming back for more.

Then an amazing thing happened. Elizabeth's mother Rachel began volunteering her help, too. When I needed to get mulch for the landscaping her mother offered to borrow a trailer from her church an go buy the mulch and deliver it. And over two weeks she and her husband did this three times.

Last week when the cardiologist called and told me to go to the Emergency Room I told him I couldn't do that because I had no one to watch my two Rottweilers, Bessie and Ruffin. Then I called Rachel and told her my problem. She didn't hesitate for a moment to offer her help. Rachel drove me to the hospital with her daughter and they stayed with me for 5 hours until I was admitted. And for the five days I was in the hospital they came and took care of Ruff and Bessie several times each day.

Ruffin and Bessie hit it off right away with Elizabeth and Rachel. I received daily updates from Rachel and she even made a video of Elizabeth playing with both of the Rotts. I knew I couldn't stay in the hospital much longer when Rachel told me that Ruff was starting to miss me. The cardiologist implanted the pacemaker on Monday, the day before I came home. On the same day Rachel told me that Ruffin had stopped eating.

Yesterday, Rachel picked me up and brought me home. She went into the house first and took Bessie out back so I could see my best friend Ruff. And that was some greeting. Ruff smothered me with kisses for about 5 minutes. Then Rachel brought Bessie in the house and we did the same thing all over. Both Ruff and Bess spent the entire day with me to make sure I wasn't going to leave them any more.

I am so glad I met and made friends with Rachel and Elizabeth. Whatever it is that they teach them at their church, they have shown me a new meaning to Christian charity. And I am convinced that there are Angels that walk among us.